Can You Be Friends After Lovers? This remarkable author shows how to approach relationship parting in a way that bestows us with strength and empowerment, rather than pain and sadness. He explains that we should define the success of a relationship by the quality of aliveness we experienced while the relationship thrived, and that although we may no longer have romantic love for our partner, we can have a spiritual love that can endure forever. He calls this kind of love 'Big Love.' If you are ready to move from fear and separateness to mutual empowerment, then this book offers you a new vision and many tools to live by.