Becoming the Narcissist’s Nightmare: How to Devalue and Discard the Narcissist While Supplying Yourself

by Shahida Arabi
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Publisher: Shahida Arabi

Publication Date: December 11, 2016

ISBN: 9781311742759

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Although clinical research has been conducted on narcissism as a disorder, less is known about its effects on victims who are in toxic relationships with narcissistic partners, those who meet the criteria for Narcissistic Personality Disorder. Unfortunately, the full extent of what narcissistic abuse entails is not taught in any psychology class or diagnostic manual. Since pathological narcissists are unlikely to seek treatment for their disorder, it is also difficult to pinpoint what exactly makes a narcissistic abuser tick and the manipulative tactics they use, which are likely to differ from those of other types of abusers as they are more covert and underhanded. What is even more baffling is the addiction we form with our narcissistic abusers, created by biochemical bonds and trauma bonds that are also unlike any other relationship we experience.

In this book, survivors will learn:

•The red flags of narcissistic behavior as well as covert manipulation tactics.
•Why abuse survivors usually stay with a narcissist long after incidents of abuse occur.
•How our own brain chemistry locks us into an addiction with a narcissist, creating cravings for the constant chaos of the abuse cycle.
•Traditional and alternative methods to begin to detach and heal from the addiction to the narcissist.
•How to rebuild an even more victorious and empowering life after abuse.

Narcissistic partners employ numerous stealthy tactics to devalue and manipulate their victims behind closed doors. These partners lack empathy and demonstrate an incredible sense of entitlement and sense of superiority which drives their exploitative behavior in interpersonal relationships. Their tactics can include verbal abuse and emotional invalidation, stonewalling, projection, taking control of every aspect of the victim’s life, gaslighting the victim into thinking the abuse isn’t real, staging smear campaigns against the victim to ruin his or her reputation, ...